NAAIMAT  MUHAMMED 

CANDIDATE FOR NYC Council 

DISTRICT 16 – THE BRONX

A lot of people both young and old face bullying epidemic with cyber bullying on the rise. Bullying just seems to be a virus that is too difficult to eradicate in the world. Susceptibility to this has no exception, no doubt statistics shows that;

71% of students report incidents of bullying as a problem at their school,
90% of 4th graders report being victims of bullying,
30% of students are either bullies or victims of bullying,
1 in 7 students in grades k-12 either a bully or a victim of bullying.
We can go on and on with statistics but how can we combat this? What are we doing at community level and as individuals to ensure we have a bully-free world for us and the generation to come?

One of the things we hope to accomplish at the official launch of False Labels on July the 6th 2013 is to hold community conversation about bullying and self-esteem issues. There will be a panel discussion with community leaders to find the best ways of solving the problem of bullying.

And who else can better lead this discussion other than our very capable and powerful:
NAAIMAT MUHAMMED, youth and community champion in our community.
She is one of four candidates running for this office and the only woman. How brave and inspirational to A lot of girls AND women out there. No doubt she is the new song on the lips of all Africans in her community for her brevity.

Over the past three years as a Community Outreach Liaison for Council member Helen Diane Foster of the 16th Council District in the Bronx, she’s been able to mobilize the growing immigrant population (particularly the African and Muslim community) to be actively engaged in the civic process. Naaimat’s support for cultural diversity and inclusiveness has been a driving force behind her leadership. Working with families, schools, business owners, and community stakeholders has allowed her to identify key issues to address through policy, coalition building, and neighborhood programming. Best known for her consistent and informative communications to the community, she continues to be a source of vital information that connects constituents to opportunities. She has led, organized, and established credibility, which has helped identify her as a role model and inspiration to the youth and the community at large.
She represents diversity and adversity and achieved it with much perseverance. A woman on an empowerment journey who is willing and ready to lend her leadership to her youth, women in professions, the immigrant population, religious interfaith matters and ultimately, the pursuit of the American Dream.
I am so humbled, thankful and delighted to have your support on this empowerment journey that we all are on.

Lucy Cleary

Author of “All  I had Was Your Birth Certificate”

coming all the way from Delawe  

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Miss Fatima Mansaray

Winner of best dressed

at An African Cultural Evening Organized by

U.S African an Synergy 

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Marie-claire Kuja: 804-728-9174

kujamac@yahoo.com

www.falselabelseries.com

OFFICIAL LAUNCH  AND  FUNDRAISER OF FALSE LABELS GLOBAL INC.& ITS PROJECTS.

Turning Scars into Stars-A Stirring Call to Action to Empower Girls

Marie-claire N kuja: An Inspirational story of Empowerment.

Bronx, New York, April 26, 2013, high profile women and men from around the state and beyond are on the top list of guests to officially launch Marie-claire N Kuja’s not-for-profit organization False Labels Global Inc. and her book series, the False Labels Series, on Saturday July 6^th 2013 at Holy Rosary Church (Winster Hall) Bronx NY, 10469 from 7pm -2 am.

FaLaGl Inc.was established in 2012 in Bronx NY to combat the timely issue of bullying and its devastating effects in our communities and also to help women and girls worldwide with self-esteem building through education amongst other things. The night dubbed “Don’t Let People Label You” is expected to have community conversation with leaders and panel discussion with authors, teachers and students to find the best possible ways to combat the epidemic so as to create a safe and bully-free world for us and the generation to come.

Bullying in all its forms must stop once and for all. Back in 2012 nurse turned author Marie-claire after receiving a lot of rejection letters from publishers, turned to self publishing and published three books which soon climbed on Amazon Top 100 bestselling lists. Her provocative book series ignites the spirit of advocacy in readers, exploring empowerment, inspiration, bravery, peace of mind, forgiveness and hope. Through her writing, Marie-claire calls for advocacy to start from the home and at personal level.”It’s only in that way we can make peace with ourselves and learn how to accept and embrace our imperfections joyfully, completely and with pride”. She further shares a new vision of what must be done to live an authentic life instead of conforming to other peoples’ expectations of us or trying to fit in the status quo.

She is so delighted that a story like hers, a girl who was once considered an outcast could get so much support from everyone and get women, men and girls identify with it. This is a special night to speak, reflect, fund raise, take, give, hug, network and make a difference. We must instill a new culture of love, forgiveness, peace and harmony in our lives, communities and families.

As a teenage mother and victim of bullying, Marie-claire was not fully aware that there were millions of other women and girls going through similar situations. Once she realized the staggering number of women and girls suffering from bullying and low self-esteem, her anger was evoked to fight and stop the menace, a crime that has cost the lives of so many and leave a handful with very little or no self worth. She didn’t feel emotionally scarred only for herself but for the millions of other girls who remain invisible in the rumbles of death and low self-esteem. She was determined to break her silence and inspire millions across the globe to do the same. Rejection did not enslave her nor kept her a victim of her past, thus rather than stand by and cry over it, she took a self empowerment journey and turned her scars into stars by establishing her organization and is carrying it with passion which is fast becoming an inspiration to many globally, with her messages of empowerment engraved in the pages of her books spreading throughout the world. She with her NGO is making sure the whole world joins her efforts. Her story shows survival, triumph and empowerment of an African girl who refuses to let her life be controlled by others. And that is the story that women and girls and everyone needs to hear, that they can rise above any circumstance of oppression or abuse—That they can triumph.

Marie-claire will read excerpts from her books and answer questions, followed by panel discussions with community leaders, authors and students. The night ends with a fundraiser for the African Girls Self- Esteem and Education Fund, where guests will donate generously to support items like school fees for girls, the manufacturing of affordable reusable sanitary pads for school-going African girls, counseling and empowerment. Guests will have time to be cheered up to music by New York’s best Joe Ndams and personal testimonies from readers. The event is free but generous monetary donations will be highly appreciated.

Featured activities: Raffle draws and cutting of cake (African style)

About the author

Not long ago, Marie-claire Nabila Kuja, Founder and CEO of False Labels Global Inc. and author of the False Label Series, heeded to her calling and began to use her gift as an author/inspirational and motivational speaker to do the work God called her to do. She is a passionate speaker in numerous panels and workshops, primarily those devoted to the enhancement of self esteem of young girls and women throughout the world.

Her passion is to inspire, empower, encourage and motivate others to overcome any strongholds that have held them back for so long. She respects and embraces her calling as a true gift from God and is ready and willing to spread her wings throughout the world. She is a mother, a nurse, and the author of this powerful and best selling False Label Series. She is also a great blogger and blogs on inspirational and motivational topics at www.falselabelseries.com. She is originally from the African country of Cameroon and lives in New York.

Before she became a published author, she wrote and published very inspiring and motivating articles for an online magazine called Ezine:

Five Secrets on How To Thrive in Recession,

Finance: Personal Finance • Published: May 28, 2009

Safeguarding Your Mind

Health and Fitness: Emotional Freedom Technique • Published: March 5, 2009

Your Relationship With You (A Woman of Virtue)

Women’s Interests • Published: March 5, 2009

Even in the Midst of Crisis – Keys to Thriving in Crisis

Self Improvement: Personal Growth • Published: February 17, 2009

The Mango Tree

Self Improvement: Empowerment • Published: February 16, 2009

Teen Pregnancy and How To Reclaim Your Life

Home and Family: Pregnancy • Published: February 12, 2009

Her newest book projects are:

1) Women & Girls of Strength: A self –esteem workshop curriculum which will be used in schools, churches, colleges, and women’s ministries worldwide to help women and girls discover sparks of self worth in their lives.

2)Women Who Changed Africa: A ground breaking collection of biographies which is meant to showcase African women change makers worldwide, who are doing great things for the world and the African continent in particular.

Press contacts for interviews

kujamac@yahoo.com

Marie-claire: 804-728-9174

Chichi-646-281-6991

To get the books or at least see inside check the links below

www.amazon.com/false labels

www.Barnes and nobles.com/false labels

A SPECIAL THANKS TO OUR SPONSORS.

Miss Chichi Onukwue

Adonai Magazine

World Partners for Development

SPONSORS AND THOSE TO EXHIBIT THEIR WORK VERY WELCOME.

CALL US ON 804-728-9174 TO REGISTER YOUR STALL.

An Opportunity for everyone to showcase their work

Authors, sponsors, poets, businesses and other organizations book for a nominal donation fee to announce and market your products. Teachers, authors, Pastors, Trustees, School Heads and many to grace event and in speaker line up.

PROGRAM OF THE DAY COMING SOON-STARTS AT EXACTLY 7PM STRICTLY

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Marie-claire Kuja: 804-728-9174

kujamac@yahoo.com

www.falselabelseries.com

OFFICIAL LAUNCH  AND  FUNDRAISER OF FALSE LABELS GLOBAL INC.& ITS PROJECTS.

Turning Scars into Stars-A Stirring Call to Action to Empower Girls

Marie-claire N kuja: An Inspirational story of Empowerment.

Bronx, New York, April 26, 2013, high profile women and men from around the state and beyond are on the top list of guests to officially launch Marie-claire N Kuja’s not-for-profit organization False Labels Global Inc. and her book series, the False Labels Series, on Saturday July 6^th 2013 at Holy Rosary Church (Winster Hall) Bronx NY, 10469 from 7pm -2 am.

FaLaGl Inc.was established in 2012 in Bronx NY to combat the timely issue of bullying and its devastating effects in our communities and also to help women and girls worldwide with self-esteem building through education amongst other things. The night dubbed “Don’t Let People Label You” is expected to have community conversation with leaders and panel discussion with authors, teachers and students to find the best possible ways to combat the epidemic so as to create a safe and bully-free world for us and the generation to come.

Bullying in all its forms must stop once and for all. Back in 2012 nurse turned author Marie-claire after receiving a lot of rejection letters from publishers, turned to self publishing and published three books which soon climbed on Amazon Top 100 bestselling lists. Her provocative book series ignites the spirit of advocacy in readers, exploring empowerment, inspiration, bravery, peace of mind, forgiveness and hope. Through her writing, Marie-claire calls for advocacy to start from the home and at personal level.”It’s only in that way we can make peace with ourselves and learn how to accept and embrace our imperfections joyfully, completely and with pride”. She further shares a new vision of what must be done to live an authentic life instead of conforming to other peoples’ expectations of us or trying to fit in the status quo.

She is so delighted that a story like hers, a girl who was once considered an outcast could get so much support from everyone and get women, men and girls identify with it. This is a special night to speak, reflect, fund raise, take, give, hug, network and make a difference. We must instill a new culture of love, forgiveness, peace and harmony in our lives, communities and families.

As a teenage mother and victim of bullying, Marie-claire was not fully aware that there were millions of other women and girls going through similar situations. Once she realized the staggering number of women and girls suffering from bullying and low self-esteem, her anger was evoked to fight and stop the menace, a crime that has cost the lives of so many and leave a handful with very little or no self worth. She didn’t feel emotionally scarred only for herself but for the millions of other girls who remain invisible in the rumbles of death and low self-esteem. She was determined to break her silence and inspire millions across the globe to do the same. Rejection did not enslave her nor kept her a victim of her past, thus rather than stand by and cry over it, she took a self empowerment journey and turned her scars into stars by establishing her organization and is carrying it with passion which is fast becoming an inspiration to many globally, with her messages of empowerment engraved in the pages of her books spreading throughout the world. She with her NGO is making sure the whole world joins her efforts. Her story shows survival, triumph and empowerment of an African girl who refuses to let her life be controlled by others. And that is the story that women and girls and everyone needs to hear, that they can rise above any circumstance of oppression or abuse—That they can triumph.

Marie-claire will read excerpts from her books and answer questions, followed by panel discussions with community leaders, authors and students. The night ends with a fundraiser for the African Girls Self- Esteem and Education Fund, where guests will donate generously to support items like school fees for girls, the manufacturing of affordable reusable sanitary pads for school-going African girls, counseling and empowerment. Guests will have time to be cheered up to music by New York’s best Joe Ndams and personal testimonies from readers. The event is free but generous monetary donations will be highly appreciated.

Featured activities: Raffle draws and cutting of cake (African style)

About the author

Not long ago, Marie-claire Nabila Kuja, Founder and CEO of False Labels Global Inc. and author of the False Label Series, heeded to her calling and began to use her gift as an author/inspirational and motivational speaker to do the work God called her to do. She is a passionate speaker in numerous panels and workshops, primarily those devoted to the enhancement of self esteem of young girls and women throughout the world.

Her passion is to inspire, empower, encourage and motivate others to overcome any strongholds that have held them back for so long. She respects and embraces her calling as a true gift from God and is ready and willing to spread her wings throughout the world. She is a mother, a nurse, and the author of this powerful and best selling False Label Series. She is also a great blogger and blogs on inspirational and motivational topics at www.falselabelseries.com. She is originally from the African country of Cameroon and lives in New York.

Before she became a published author, she wrote and published very inspiring and motivating articles for an online magazine called Ezine:

Five Secrets on How To Thrive in Recession,

Finance: Personal Finance • Published: May 28, 2009

Safeguarding Your Mind

Health and Fitness: Emotional Freedom Technique • Published: March 5, 2009

Your Relationship With You (A Woman of Virtue)

Women’s Interests • Published: March 5, 2009

Even in the Midst of Crisis – Keys to Thriving in Crisis

Self Improvement: Personal Growth • Published: February 17, 2009

The Mango Tree

Self Improvement: Empowerment • Published: February 16, 2009

Teen Pregnancy and How To Reclaim Your Life

Home and Family: Pregnancy • Published: February 12, 2009

Her newest book projects are:

1) Women & Girls of Strength: A self –esteem workshop curriculum which will be used in schools, churches, colleges, and women’s ministries worldwide to help women and girls discover sparks of self worth in their lives.

2)Women Who Changed Africa: A ground breaking collection of biographies which is meant to showcase African women change makers worldwide, who are doing great things for the world and the African continent in particular.

Press contacts for interviews

kujamac@yahoo.com

Marie-claire: 804-728-9174

Chichi-646-281-6991

To get the books or at least see inside check the links below

www.amazon.com/false labels

www.Barnes and nobles.com/false labels

A SPECIAL THANKS TO OUR SPONSORS.

Miss Chichi Onukwue

Adonai Magazine

World Partners for Development

SPONSORS AND THOSE TO EXHIBIT THEIR WORK VERY WELCOME.

CALL US ON 804-728-9174 TO REGISTER YOUR STALL.

An Opportunity for everyone to showcase their work

Authors, sponsors, poets, businesses and other organizations book for a nominal donation fee to announce and market your products. Teachers, authors, Pastors, Trustees, School Heads and many to grace event and in speaker line up.

PROGRAM OF THE DAY COMING SOON-STARTS AT EXACTLY 7PM STRICTLY

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A Brief Synopsis of “What Is False Labels”:

Who Are These Books For?

Impact From The Series:

About The Author

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“If Time heals all wounds,” . . .
. . . why does mine feel so fresh and painful after so many years?” Why am I trapped into a false identity? Why do I still feel hurt from all the names I was called as a child? Why am I stuck in my past? Why do I struggle so much with low self esteem? Many ask these questions, but few get an answer. The False Label Series responds in a bold, practical, and strategic way. Since God loves us and is for us, and created each and every one of us so unique and special, and has a plan for our lives which is prosperity and not disaster, life can be a fun adventure, one we’re free to enjoy, not one requiring us to live in pain, bitterness and low self esteem .This series interacts with common questions, offers next steps, and simplifies complex ideas.

Since God loves us and is for us, and created each and every one of us so unique and special, and has a plan for our lives which is prosperity and not disaster, life can be a fun adventure, one we’re free to enjoy, not one requiring us to live in pain, bitterness and low self esteem .This series interacts with common questions, offers next steps, and simplifies complex ideas.

What is False Labels anyway?

It is a system that helps people reclaim their authentic power, evolve faster, heal, transform, and live satisfying, fulfilling lives.

False Labels is a new, truly revolutionary how-to book, for people like you and I who love the human potential movement and seek a game-changing approach to self-discovery, self-acceptance, love of life, and reality creation

It’s about those lies we are told by the people in our lives—mothers, fathers, brother, sisters, friends, teachers etc about who they think we are or what we ought to be. But because Only God determines our destiny and not man, we need to wear the labels He has for us like victor not victim, like unique and special, chosen, blessed, beautiful, etc.

If we are not standing for the right values and principle, that’s a lost for the world

There is no more appreciation for women intellectuals’ because it’s all about the body and not the brain.

Fl takes the stand that the media is portraying women’s primary values as their youth, beauty and sexuality – rather than their capacity as future leaders.

Women are brought up to be fundamentally insecure

Who are these books for?
Many want a healthy self esteem, fulfillment in their lives, active faith, many want to be set free from a stronghold that has held them back for so long, many want answers as to why they have been called all sort of names or labeled as not good enough, but feel ill-equipped to achieve that goal. The False Label Series is the perfect resource for people from all works of live who are struggling with low self esteem, those stuck in the pains of their past, those who   have heeded to these false labels and have ended on the side lines of life, feeling washed out and drowning in self-pity and low self esteem

And those wandering why they are here on earth for. Whether you’re taking your first steps, gaining a big-picture overview of who are and your life’s purpose, or looking for fulfillment in your life, this series will help. It’s more than just a book. It’s a guide; not with instructions, but full of exercises. A book not only to read but to write in, like a journal with spaces for you to write your discoveries, to track your progress and to map your new path! A guide for you to experiment a set of different proposals which I drafted based on a lot of stories that I have compiled from my experiences and those of many others. All in all, I want the book to be a companion for you in your quest to design the life style that matches that of your dreams! They’re great books to read on your own, but they’re even better when read and discussed in a group.

Why self publish?
As the changing economy forces the publishing industry to morph, first-time authors face a growing challenge. If you’re not already well-known (i.e., have a significant ‘platform’), publishers are less likely to invest in you. It’s more economically feasible for them to publish a known commodity than the unknown lady. Well this unknown lady refuses to give up on a dream God has placed in her hands. That’s where you come in.

What have I done so far?

Sent out free copies of my books to people of all ages

Have been responsible for marketing and promoting my books and my presentations

Have attended the best women’s conference in New York

Have done presentations (speaking engagements) in churches and youth groups in New York where I leave.

Currently planning and working on offering one-day free workshops to girls in my community.

It’s been the most amazing self publishing two full books both of which have been best sellers on Amazon kindle, with the third book to be release in two weeks. But now is the time for me to boost up my exposure visibility and sales both on and off line. The thing is, I’ve spent ALL of my savings, all the money I get from my regular job as a nurse to get these books out. There are over 80% of people both young and old who are stuck in some identity they never asked for. There are an incredible number of teenage mothers around the world who have been considered forgotten. They need those methods and practices outline in these books.

This is where your help comes in.

Finding my true calling in writing and speaking has given me healing. It’s been a very therapeutic journey. But there is even something that will mean the world to me, getting these books and its message to those that need throughout the world

The Impact

We are living in very difficult moment but it’s even tougher for young women and girls all over the world especially with the media’s definition of true beauty and with people in our live who have their own definition of who they think we are or what we should be. So many people both young and old are wrapped and caught up in these beliefs and trapped in trends and fashions that make them to act in different ways. Most people drift through life without knowing who they are or their life’s purpose. Every one of us has a story where we are walking around feeling limited or small or not good enough.

But!!!

The False Label Series

-Re-defines beauty as not just a thing of mere looks but as something that comes from the inside out.

-A thing of not only our bodies but our brains.

-Teaches people from all works of life to find their inner strength instead of trying to fit into the status-Quo. No child of God is perfect so no need to fight to fit in or be perfect.Hey! Children of God don’t fit in, they stand out.

-The books will be used as a vehicle for hope, inspiration, encouragement and awareness.

-Women will begin to connect with God or deepen their current relationship with Him.

- This will result in a greater confidence, stronger self-esteem and the finding of purpose for their lives.

-Armed with that, women are less likely to fall into abusive relationships, depression, isolation, negative self-talk, sexual indiscretions or living up to the stereotypes of this world.

To break out of a barely get-by-life style and live your life to the fullest,

Stop going through life with self pity and low self esteem, focusing on the negative.

It teaches that we need to drop all those stories we have been told in order to become who God created us to be.

- To have courage to accept our imperfections and treat ourselves kindly

-To celebrate who we are joyfully, completely and with pride

-To know that God created everyone very unique and special

-To believe that we are God’s masterpiece and can brighten the whole world in and around you.

-And to believe we are enough because we are enough.

What I Need & What You Get

I feel confident that $11,000 can go a long way to making this thing happen.

And what is “This Thing”?

A book launch / fundraiser

But Why?

Book Launch_________Fundraise____________Exposure__________speaking engagements and book signing events__________schedule events in cities where I have a following_____ run contests to increase the involvement of my community________and  most especially get these books in the hands of people across this country and other parts of the world.

Obviously the more exposure I get the more opportunities I will have to speak, teach, travel, and be interviewed on the themes of this book.  And these topics will help inspire the rebuilding of the social fabric of our country in ways that we desperately need in this day and age. Your financial support and your willingness to spread the word about this project will help me a great deal. You’re free to support at any dollar amount, but don’t miss the fun incentives for specific dollar amounts.

Here’s what we need and what you’ll receive:

Our Estimate:

Hall or event center =14,500

Books for fundraising =2,800

publiity, promotion and marketing=5000

Videographer /photographer to capture the event =1200

Food/drinks for quest =2000

Gift bags =500

Advertising; magazine, targeted audience four ads@1300

Total funds needed: $14,500

Tokens of Gratitude for your Support!

Choose from these expressions of appreciation for your generous support!

Priceless: My boundless gratitude for spreading the word about this campaign to family and friends! Please share the link to this page with everyone you feel might resonate with it.

$1 Donation: “The power of a dollar “A personal thank you email from me.

$5 Donation: A Fab Pack A personal “thank you” e-mail from me plus a bookmark.

$10 Donation: The Great Fab Pack A personal “thank you” e-mail from me plus a three autographed bookmarks  .

$25 Donation: “The double Fab Package” An autographed copy of one book of your choice from the series,” written with your name and signed by me with a book mark.

$35 Donation:”The triple Fab Package” A personal thank you e-mail from me, autographed copies of two books of your choice from the series,”

$50 Donation: “The Goodie Bag “A personal “thank you” e-mail from me with me reply to a question of your choice about the teachings of The False Label Series. Autographed copies of three books (bookmarks) of your choice from the series along with a special “Recognition with a twist” package.

“The Gift Basket”

$100 Donation: A personal “thank you” e-mail from me with my reply to a question of your choice about the teachings of The False Label Series. Autographed copies of four books of your choice from the series along with a special “Recognition with a twist” package

$250 Donation: “A special Recognition Pack”A personal “thank you” e-mail from me with my reply to a question of your choice about the teachings of The False Label Series. Autographed copies of four books of your choice from the series along with a special “Recognition with a twist” package

$350 Donation:”A double Special Recognition Pack” A personal “thank you” e-mail from me with me reply to a question of your choice about the teachings of The False Label Series. Autographed copies of six books of your choice from the series along with a special “Recognition with a twist” package for gifting to friends or family members. Your name, listed as a Sponsors of the event and on the Acknowledgments page of my next book. (International, please add $30 for postage.)

$500 Donation: “A Triple Reco Package “A personal “thank you” e-mail from me with me reply to a question of your choice about the teachings of The False Label Series. Autographed copies of nine books of your choice from the series (three from each book) along with a special “Recognition with a twist” package for gifting to friends or family members. Your name, listed as a Sponsors of the event and on the Acknowledgments page of her next book. (International, please add $30 for postage.)

$1000 Donation:”The All Time Best Pack” A personal “thank you” e-mail from me with me reply to a question of your choice about the teachings of The False Label Series. Autographed copies of twenty books of your choice from the series (three from each book) along with a special “Recognition with a twist” package for gifting to friends or family members. Your name, listed as a Sponsors of the event and on the Acknowledgments page of me next book. (International, please add $30 for postage.)

What if we exceed our fund-raising goal?

There are several exciting projects in the works which will be funded with the help of any additional revenue that comes through this fund-raising campaign. They include:

I intent to offer monthly 1-day free workshops, for girls and women in my community beginning next year (2013). This will be a fun and excellent way to share our experiences, our wounds, our truths and our victories. Each 1-day workshop will end with a sharing salon where participants will share some of the lessons they learned from the series and from other participants at the workshop.

Would you be willing to help this girl who refuses to be average, who has a passion to make a difference, and who has a plan to help spread the message of community, belonging, forgiveness, love, the love of God and acceptance to more people in our country and the world?

A HUGE THANK YOU!!!!

Other Ways You Can Help

This project needs your word of mouth, so anyway you can spread the word helps. A post on FaceBook, a tweet, a comment on your favorite blog or even just e-mailing the link to this page to a friend can make a difference. Make some noise! You can use IndieGoGo’s share tools, which you will find just below the video on this page, or you can use your own. Thanks!

If you do make a financial contribution, once you receive your perks, please come back here and make your comments – that definitely helps.

Also, if you are insanely great at branding and design, professional translation, professional coaching, or marketing and publicity, and you would like to contribute that, I would be most honored to discuss that with you and find a win-win approach!

About me and the creation of the False Label Series

Two images from my childhood come rushing to mind when I think about the person I am today and why I am drawn to sharing my story with people all over the world. The first image was from the first time I was treated like an outcast and told by many that I will never amount to anything. Having a child as a teenager and out of wedlock is wrong but not as bad as to earn me the names I earned. The second image was from the way my son was treated. Not only did people call me useless for having a child out of wedlock, they transferred that unto to him and called him a bastard. That was so hurtful and destroying emotionally and completely damaged everything I ever had as self-worth.

Every time that I heard people call my son and I names, it reminded me of what I was not. During that period in my life I was uncomfortable, insecure and struggling. I was at war with myself .But one day, so tired of fighting with myself I decided to turn things the other way. I was determined to know why I was created and what my purpose in life is. While on a quest on finding out my purpose I started writing to myself (a journal). Gradually I noticed my journal was becoming a journey, not just a simple destination. They were real life happening at the moment. I’d completed two to three a week. They were thick and full and ripe with feelings and thoughts. Whenever I was down and read from my journals I felt like an angel was talking to me. It felt so uplifting. My own words became an inspiration to me. I was reminded of how important it is to believe in myself and remember that we are all created unique and special., I came to this wonderful self realization that I a masterpiece carefully handpicked by God. I am not a mistake, nor useless nor a failure, nor any of the other names I was called. I also realized I had to stand out instead of try to fit in. Then I decided to do what I am asking you today to do. To take off those old false labels and re-label yourself with what God says about you. He made you special and unique

People around me would read them and said: “Oh! I totally felt this way or I relate so much—”. I was fascinated with people’s truth, how they were perceived by others and how that didn’t necessarily jibe with what they felt. People would say: “you are so put together” but didn’t know what a struggle my life was. They also didn’t know how apart I was from myself. I wish there was a book like this when I was growing up. I had so many different struggles centered around negative belief system I had formed based on what other people said about me. This is a universal struggle. A friend who read from my journal related to my story so much. Then I decided to test it on girls from other parts of the world and they all related in one way or another. Then I knew I was not alone. I discovered who I am through this journey and what my true calling is on this earth.

I know women were relating to my daily struggles and triumphs as I walked with God. But how can we combat this? How can we empower our minds and spirits and the generation to come?

So the idea of having a strong voice became very confronting.

I made a pact to share my story with others because I believe only shared experiences help. I had to step out of my comfort zone and into a role I was unfamiliar with. Planning, writing and publishing a book on my own meant a very tough challenge in the real world, which was frightening at first, but once I gained confidence I embraced all challenges head on. So it was because of my own life’s challenges and experiences that I set out and swore to compile one of the best self-discovery frameworks I have ever seen. No ifs or buts. Why? Because I was fed up of—living my life based on what people thought about me.  Personal growth is my passion, and I have looked at an endless amount of materials over the last seven years to confidently be able to make that statement. The series came to me synchronistic ally as I worked on my own life’s toughest inner challenges and experiences. And it rang true. And I tested and confirmed it against many credible sources.

In fact, I believe so much in this passion and the need for it in the world, that

I have decided to give this my full attention, answer my life calling (not just this book, but helping people reach their highest potential and live in harmony with Life).

The Ultimate Goal is…. /mission

Mission to help any girl who is on the verge of dropping out of school. Her goal: to provide them with social and financial support, enabling them to finish school and become leaders in their community.

No girl left behind because of names, or child birth, rape.

Anyways, when all is said and done, my target is to reach young women and girls from neighborhood in Bronx New York to the ones in the suburbs of Africa, India and Asia who have been considered the forgotten so as to help tip the scales and usher in a more compassionate world and one in which beauty in no longer defined based on physical appearance only but the what is in the brain. A world where people learn that they are ok just the way they are. By December 2013, my goal is to have directly or indirectly reached at least 13 million book readers, app users and movie viewers.

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False Labels Book 3

We hear so much about the tragic consequences of bullying  on television, in the newspapers, magazines and the radio. The lives of uncountable young people have been taken due to the primitive and vicious hands of bullies. We have also heard about the emotional scars that bullying leaves in the lives of its victims and the psychological torture . Very  long before “bullying” became  a world’s  conversation, there were people like Rosemary, Delia,Lisa etc whom we met earlier in part one, who were  faced with a gantlet of assault,teasing, taunting, humiliation and sexual harassment. They were denied  meaningful parts of their lives, education and social privileges either because they were born  with a disability or developed one somewhere in their lives. People treated them as if they are from another planet .But the children who famously were the ones causing others pain were advertised. No one saw any problem   in it. The adults didn’t care just as is happening nowadays. They couldn’t be bothered, neither did they notice or actively participated. They could stand right by someone being bullied even to the point of death but will not say a word nor take any action.

In part one we had the opportunity of getting into the lives of thirteen different people who have faced the consequences of bullying in one way or another .We have also met people who carried the effects of bullying into their adulthood and so forth. This volume is a wonderful resource for developing empathetic critical thinking skills that will fortify a new youth culture of kindness and compassion. It’s also an engaging book of short stories that will empower parents and teachers to help kids deal with challenges like peer pressure and bullying. It provides a wonderful opportunity for generating ethical and moral discussions with teens that are faced with so many negative influences of peer pressure, bullying and the media.  It also contains very excellent and practical ways on how to build a healthy self esteem and how to use one’s talents and gifts to be better citizens of the world.

   Reviews about the series.

Dr. Lum Esther calls her “an inspirational powerhouse whose brilliance shines through her dynamic books and presentations. Kindness, empathy and forgiveness are the greatest tools to give anyone, young or old before sending them-off for school or work. She discussed these principles in the most amazing manner. A must read for all”.

Miss Terry McCarthy says “Marie-claire is one of the best things coming to Africa. I applaud her courage for sharing her experiences to help others”.

Jan McCray of Bethany Baptist church Brooklyn New York says, “Her presentation remains the hot topic here at Bethany”. Her book series is a great toolbox full of strategies to fend off feeling victimized at school, work or anywhere.

Atumo Daniel Etoh Teacher and Examiner G.B.H.S Mbengwi North West Cameroon

says, “Marie-claire is a very blessed woman and will go places. She is an inspiration to millions. I hope and pray that African women both young and old will be inspired by her courage and be able not only to let go of their past, but share their own stories to in turn inspire others. Her book series and her presentations intended to giving Inspiration/Encouragement/Hope & Empowerment to people from all works of life, has already started spreading and I see the next big thing not only for Africa but for the entire world.
Contemporarily, I find the book serving as an inspirational document for the youth of today (socially, spiritually and mentally).It’s contents, if read in its entirety, would also provide encouragements as well as linkage to God for readers who might be caught in the middle. I applaud her brevity.

Etta Graham-Mitchell, MsEd, CRC, Seminarian Student says, ”Do we need another book on how to prevent bullying? You bet we do–and this is the book we need. While rooted in the principle of the Golden Rule, it is eminently readable, practical, and likely to make you successful in creating classrooms and schools where students respect and care about each other instead of bullying. I recommend this book to anyone who wants to eradicate the scourge of ‘mean classrooms’ which too often dominates our educational landscape.”

Mr. Mensa Theo says, “All her books are great but this is the greatest .This thoughtful, thorough staff development resource provides direction for establishing a strong anti-bullying program. The book takes you on a journey through the research and guides you in implementing the strategies discussed. The intervention strategies are very adaptable. She also did a great job of paying more attention to bullies because she believes any problem must be solved by looking at the root cause first. It’s very involving and has lessons for people of all ages. Plus the words to ponder, the refreshing prayers and the rewind at the end of each section make this book a GEM”

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My topic was on the impact of words.Read on and share your thoughts if you so desire.

The impact of words

Have you ever been given an identity you never asked for or called any names?

In life people are constantly telling us what we can or cannot become ,what we do or don’t have. It’s just like they are sticking a label on us, “you are too fat”, “too short”, “not good enough”, “can never amount to anything”?.

Kelly was a little girl who was bullied throughout her high school years. Her school mates had put some labels on her like, geek, fat and short. She was called “the thing.” Surprisingly, she carried that burden with her throughout her first year in college. She believed what her name callers had told her, she was the “thing.” Those bad words just stuck. They were so ironed in her mind so much that when someone complimented her as being pretty, she immediately dismissed it because she thought that was another way of mocking her or maybe they just pitied her. She was so depressed that she started isolating herself from everyone. She had no friends. No one wanted her because she did not fit into their niche.All these damaged her sense of self worth. She had thought of taking her life many times because after all she did not think there was anything to live for. But one day while she was watching television, she saw reports of another teen that was teased in the same manner and decided to take his life. She immediately related to his experience and began to seek help. She got advice and support from her school chaplain and her life changed.

She began to see herself as worthy, important and also accepted and appreciate who she was and whose she belongs to.

Her brevity to seek help saved her life.

But there are thousands of people young and old who have and are going through what Kelly went through but do not have the courage or anyone to talk to. They rather keep to themselves.

Statistics shows that approx .30.000 American kids are killed every year and half of them from verbal abuse.

A lady I interviewed recently lost her daughter because she was called a whore in school and could not bear the humiliation.

I got pregnant as a teenager—very wrong yes, it’s not only considered an abomination and a taboo in my culture but wrong in the site of God. From that moment on,I was written off  as an outcast, failure, not valuable, second class girl, useless,someone who will never amount to anything and more..

But why talk about the impact of words?

I know all too well because I have been there that when used inappropriately and in the wrong place at the wrong time, words can be the biggest killer of self esteem.

Words  can build, destroy, curse or bless,cause insecurities and fears, self hatred, cause feelings of  unworthiness and can leave lasting scars.

        What really matters is who you are and whose you belong.

I believe that the best way to conquer whatever people say about  you is when you know who you are and whose you belong to.

I want to challenge you today, to remove all those old false labels and start relabeling yourself with what God says about you.

You are not all those names you have been called but what God calls you. When He took time to make you and I, He made a masterpiece. You are a child of the most high God. He did not make a mistake when he created you .He thinks you are unique, special, forgiven, restored, blessed,beautiful etc

Be yourself, do not try to fit in but stand out.

You are unique and special just the way you are, fearfully and beautifully made.

God determines our destiny not man

Don’t let any words still your joy.
Our human tendency is to judge others because of stereotypes, customs or prejudices and all the wrongs they have done or their imperfections. Jesus treats people as individuals, accepting them with love and compassion.He teaches us to do the same to our neighbors.

The Power of Words teaches about how words can lift or tear down another person and how we need to be careful what we say and how we say it.

Proverbs 18: 4, “your words are like life giving water”.

There people out there who have gone through  all kind of trials and tribulations and need your kind words, those kind of words that can give them a  boost  and lift them out of the strongholds that have held them back for so long. Encouraging and complimentary words.

The Boy with The Big Nose

I read an article recently about a man in his fifties now who had carried a very  burden with him from his high school days. He had been bullied so much that he was nicknamed the boy with the big nose. That damaged him not only emotionally but in all aspects of his life. His life took a different turn. He isolated himself from friends and family members and will not go anywhere people were socializing. Every time he was walking down the street and anyone looked at him, he will immediately think they were looking at his big nose. So he bought a  very big eye glasses and wore them all the time in order  take people’s attention from his nose. But he did not feel any better. Plan B was to save some money and get a nose job.

Early this year ,his family had a very big reunion .He attended anyway but will not take part in anything or even take pictures with the family. He knew exactly how to shy away when it was time for pictures. He did this for two days but one of his in- laws took notice of what was going on and decided to ask him why. When asked, he surprisingly opened up to his in-law. He told him that when he was in high school, he was called “the boy with the big nose”. If you are reading this, just imagine how many years this man went around with self-pity, shame and low self esteem because of what he was called.Words are very damaging and destroying .The good news is that his in-law used two simple words to him which changed his life.After being so shocked to hear why he  had always stayed away from the family he thought he needed help.That help was his kind and complimentary words.”You are unique  and special and  fine just the way God made you.”This man with a big nose never had to do a nose job again because someone reached out to him with kind words.

If you are here now reading this,how do you plan to use your words? Curse or bless, build or destroy?

Whose rope are you holding? How do you want to be remembered?

And to you who have bee called so many names,what will you do with all the names you have been called? Sit around in self pity and shame, feeling all watched out and be consumed with low self esteem? Or shake it off and wear the new labels God has for you?

I want to encourage you all who are reading this to:

-Learn to accept who you are while celebrating your life and your story joyfully, completely and with pride.

-Have the courage to embrace and accept your imperfections and treat yourself kindly.

-Believe you are enough.

Because no child of God is perfect, I stand here today, not as that little girl who was once considered an outcast and was drowning in self pity and shame but as a proud child of God. I pray you will all let go of any and every word that has held you back and stand as a proud child of the most high God because you are worthy.

DON’T LET PEOPLE LABEL YOU.!!!!!!!!!!!!

Book # 1& 2  of the False Label Series are all about the impacts of words and bullying.You can get  a copy at www.http://www.amazon.com/False-Labels-Astonishing-Browbeaters-ebook/dp/B00888HXO2/ref=tmm_kin_title_0?ie=UTF8&m=AG56TWVU5XWC2&qid=1342469227&sr=1-2.

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I am  pleased to let you all know that False Labels Volume 2,the kindle edition is out and available at http://www.amazon.com/False-Labels-Astonishing-Browbeaters-ebook/dp/B00888HXO2

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Browbeaters! They come in many shapes and sizes. Their behavior can have lifelong effects .Their cruelty have been known to cause loneliness, unhappiness, fear, anxiety, low self esteem, depression and even the death of most teenagers. But who are these people? They are all around us: in our schools, our malls, our jobs and even in our homes.Have you ever wondered why some people find pleasure in bullying others? Have you ever wondered why there is so much hatred in the world? And have you ever wondered why some people even take their own lives because of this societal ill?

One of the main reasons for the creation of the False label series is to help free people  from the shackles of fear, insecurity and stronghold that has held them back for so long, so that  they can give themselves permission to own their excellence and live up to their highest potential. Bullying is by far one of the ways that bullies use to stick false labels on their prey. While some people know how to deal with it, others unfortunately do not. Thus, the need for “An Insight Into The Life Of A Browbeater”, which takes a closer look at the bullying problems not only from the victim’s point of view as has been the case in the past ,but  indeed focus more deeper on the bullies to find out the reasons for their actions. The author did this by way of one- on- one interview with some ex-bullies who were kind enough to open their lives to her and the readers of this book in such candid ways. Amongst other things were the bitter lessons they learned, some of which amazingly changed their lives forever, transforming some into motivational speakers and advocates for a more peaceful and bully-free world for all. The victims on the other hand shared with her the impact bullying had on them or their family members.

Of particular value is the “Rewind” section which encourages writing and keeping a journal. This makes the book more interactive and meaningful. The exercises guide readers through learning about their own feelings, dreams, and needs–while stressing that they are responsible for their own behavior and happiness. She further encourages readers, bullies or not, to use the great talents and gifts God has blessed all of us with to do good things instead of wasting time hurting others .

The author believes strongly that bullying can be stopped if we start solving the problem from the roots— from the bullies themselves, hence the reason to get deep into the minds of the bullies. The book ends with some soul searching “Take Home Words To Ponder” and very refreshing words of prayer.

“You only get back from the universe what you invest into it. In other words, we should treat others the way we will like to be treated”.

 Some Customer Reviews

Ms. Kuja has done it again! She has gone right to the source in enlisting ex-bullies to share their stories regarding what led them to their wrong choice of becoming bullies. In her graceful, non-judgmental, loving way Ms. Kuja explores and confronts the past, but also share hope by introducing the transformational power of God presence in our lives.”  She helps us to see that labels are indeed false when they kill dreams but God words can restore us to wholeness.

Etta Graham-Mitchell,

BA, MsEd, CRC, Seminarian Student

This book is really good and easy to read. I strongly recommend it to both parents and children. I encourage especially the parents of bullies to purchase this book and use as a tool to teach their children that there is more to them than just bullying. Bullying is a very serious issue that has a prevalent impact in our society today. The author emphasizes the need for a collective call for action in the fight against bullying and not something to be taken lightly. This is because it does not only damage the self esteem of it victims but cause the death of lots of teenagers who don’t know any better. This book is packed with lessons that will empower and inspire anyone who reads it.

                                                                                                                                            Lucy Cleary-Author of All I Had Was Your Birth Certificate

A friend of mine mailed this book to me from the United States. At first I was very reluctant to read it because I was at a point where I didn’t think any advice was enough to stop me from taking my life.

After a few days, my sister entered my room and was attracted by the very beautiful book cover. Then she picked it up and never kept it down. She got so glued to the book that she called in from her job in order to finish it. Then I get so curious and wanted my gift [book] back which was not happening because she had to be finished with it first. I finally had the opportunity to read this book .The writer is a God’s sent. I did not have to kill myself again. She writes like an angel yet somehow transcends words and communicates directly to the reader’s heart. This is a classic, masterpiece, yet it is so honest that each time you read it; it speaks right into your heart. We see so often now how people are taking their lives because of bullies. This book comes with a fresh, new voice as the author emphasizes a sense of ownership in the reader for his/her own happiness. Her one on one interview with ex-bullies is a big eye opener as to why people bully,–to make you feel worthless. She talks about the importance of knowing who you are and whose you belong too and also to use our God given talents and gifts to making the world a better place .She reminds us all of the golden rule which is doing unto others what we what done unto us.                                                                                                                                                                                      Monica Mullita –United Kingdom

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This is  what people are already saying about the book.

I love this book and wish I had it as a child. It is an excellent and empowering tool that helps readers develop a healthy self esteem and self worth. During the course of the interviews with some ex-bullies, the author did bring to light various ways that bullies use to intimidate and subdue their victims. The various characters showed how they came to self realization and changed their ways through positive affirmations which I think is needed by everyone. I wish I could rate this work even more stars. It is a  gem and a must read for everybody.Kudos and more kudos to you author Kuja.

Fenyang Marie-loius, Cape Town South Africa

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                                Modified Excerpt from False Labels Vol.1 Story 5

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Limited by the system?

Do you ever feel like you are limited by the varied believes of this world? Do you ever feel like you are not worthy? Do people look at you as though you were an outcast? Maybe you have dreams and desires, but you don’t feel like you have what it takes or the connections? Or maybe you don’t have the right education. It’s tempting to think, “I’ll never rise any higher. Or I’ll never amount to anything. I’m limited to the system that I’m in.” But you have to remember, God likes to go outside the system! He likes to do unusual, extraordinary things. You may have a dream in your heart that’s bigger than your finances. It’s bigger than your education, bigger than anything that your family has ever done. And it’s easy to think, “Well, I don’t have the expertise. I don’t have the connections. I don’t have the right people behind me.” It may seem bigger than it really is, but be encouraged today that you have God—you and God are a majority! Your dream is not dependent on other people. Who you are is not dependent on other people. God loves to take ordinary people and use them to do extraordinary things. You have not seen your best days yet. No matter where you are in life, no matter what environment you’re in, no matter how impossible your dreams may seem, no matter what people call you, you need to know God already has a plan. He already has a way to fulfill that plan. If you will stay faithful God will go outside the system and take you places that you never thought possible! He will take you way beyond your dreams to help you live the life of victory He has in store for you!

All the things people said about Nkem and the way they acted towards him did him a great favor. He had no friends which meant his education was all he had to focus on, making him this very intelligent young man. People put labels on him such as obanjie and bastard, But God had a different plan for his life. He beat all the odds and the same people who called him those names are so ashamed they did. He is presently a nurse and has continued to excel. People don’t determine our destiny, God does. But it had to start with us to wanting to fight and remove the stigmas and the labels people may try to stick on us. Learn how to look pass those imperfections knowing that there are many people in the world who wish they could just have a little of what you have. Be in control and use what God has given you without heeding to the negative things you hear about yourself. Who you are makes a big difference.

That means you are not average. You are not ordinary. You are one of a kind, very special and unique. When God created you He went to great lengths to make you exactly the way He wanted. You didn’t just happen to be who you are. You didn’t just accidentally get your nose, your skin color, your gifts or abilities. God designed you the way you are on purpose and for a purpose. We should be encouraged to give praise to Him who created us so beautifully! When you understand your value and that you are a child of God, then your very existence will give God praise. When you are secure in what gifts God gave you, and you go out each day being the best you can, your life will give God praise. Honor God today by accepting who you are. Make the decision to be the best you can be. Get up every morning and set your mind in the right direction by making positive affirmations over your life: “I’m blessed. I’m so specially made. His fingerprints are all over me.” If you will learn to accept and approve who you are and have a good perspective about yourself then you’re going to do great in this life. God is going to pour out His blessings and you will live that life of victory that God has in store!

The only way you can come to feel worthy and really good about yourself, the only way to find a life of meaning and joy, is to find your own voice, find your own path, find your own worth, follow your own heart, and live your own life, not an imitation of somebody else’s or a life directed by what others think or call you.

This is because I have come to understand that first of all we are humans in our own right, thus entitled to our own lives, our own dreams, images, legacies and goals.

I think now, more than ever before, we need people with integrity, character and vision, people who want to lead, who want to encourage, who want to change the world and make it a more peaceful, hopeful and compassionate place. We need a place where more people feel accepted and valued for who they are. We need a world where we can all be ourselves and not an imitation of another.

The Word

Take
Time to be quiet
Hear what your own voice
Is telling you, listen and learn from it.
Learn who you are. Love what you have.

My mom said to me, MC (she always called me that), you have a choice. You can spend the rest of your life trying to measure up, trying to be like others trying to figure out and fulfill other people’s expectations of you, or right now, you can make a decision to let all that go. Everything starts with you, by talking and advising yourself, by talking about what you know, what you feel and what you think. You can start talking about who you are to help others and the time is now.

I’ve learned we’re all worthy of being loved and accepted just for being ourselves.
So here is my question
And you ask it, too
Just who Am I?
Always remember
That who you will be is
Up to you.
Not your father, mother, brother, sister, husband—or me.

Take your time to consider and ponder on this.
Will you be a person
Who gives encouragements?
Or a person who sucks out
All the worth in another?
Will you be a person who puts a smile on another’s face or bring tears and sadness?
To make this crazy world
A far better place
To make some improvements
For our human race.
We must learn how to let people
Be who they want to be, the “who” God created them to be.

I have come into my own, into this new person – and I really love this girl. I’m more of myself than I’ve ever been…

Just who do you want to be?

A Prayer

God of mercy and kindness
Sometimes we forget your promises
And allow ourselves to become scared or jealous.
Thank you for enabling us to be a lead in the cycle of
God’s love, in spreading your word—your truth to the world

Amen!!!

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For the other part of the story check at http://www.amazon.com/False-Labels-Inspiration-Encouragement-ebook/dp/B006YSDENC/.The paperback is on sale now for 7.99 for the whole month of May  and  the kindle edition will  be free on the 11 & 12 of May.

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